PickPlanDate is built on the premise that dating should be intentional, respectful, and real. These guidelines exist to protect that experience for everyone.
Treat every person on this platform with the same dignity you expect for yourself. Rude, degrading, or discriminatory language — in messages, profile text, or any other surface — is not tolerated. Disagreement is fine; disrespect is not.
Be yourself. Use photos that accurately represent you today. Do not impersonate another person or misrepresent your age, identity, occupation, or intentions. Catfishing — in any form — results in permanent account removal.
You must be 18 years of age or older to use PickPlanDate.
Unwanted contact, repeated messages after someone has declined to engage, threats, blackmail, and sexual content sent without consent are all forms of harassment. If someone doesn't respond or asks you to stop, stop.
[PLACEHOLDER — Specific harassment definitions and escalation paths to be reviewed by counsel.]
PickPlanDate is for genuine connection — not commerce. Promoting products, services, escort services, sex work, or any other form of solicitation is prohibited. Spam, pyramid schemes, and multi-level marketing messages will result in immediate removal.
If you encounter content or behavior that violates these guidelines, use the report button (⋯ menu) on any profile or message. Reports are reviewed by our moderation team. We take every report seriously.
[PLACEHOLDER — SLA for report review and escalation to law enforcement for serious violations to be documented by counsel.]
Violations result in actions ranging from a warning and Trust Score reduction to temporary suspension or permanent removal, depending on severity and history. We may report illegal content or behavior to law enforcement without notice.
Our Trust Score system tracks platform behavior over time. Consistent ghosting, disrespectful conduct, and profile misrepresentation affect your Trust Score and your visibility to other users.
[PLACEHOLDER — Appeals process and enforcement discretion language to be reviewed by counsel.]